What Lights You Up?
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This week I got an impromptu opportunity to share the story of finding my voice and how I now also show up more powerfully in my music as a result.
I said yes to this unexpected virtual opportunity even though we're in the middle of planning and packing and moving to Louisiana (fingers crossed the process goes smoothly) because it was easy and I knew that it would bring me joy during a crazy week.
So at 9pm Tuesday night, I got on Zoom and "relaxed" in a way that is special to me.
Seeing the delight on the attendees' faces (even through the digital screen) and hearing how much they enjoyed the stories and music I played lit me up.
And today I'm energized to continue the mundane (to me) packing process.
Today I have a simple question for you: What lights YOU up?
And how can you access that easy boost of energy to help you do something that you find difficult/tiresome next week?
This is one of the secrets to becoming more charismatic in your life! Fill your cup with joy often so that you have reserves available when more challenging tasks arise.
In case you're feeling stuck, here are some additional examples to get your imagination going:
- biting into a fresh, juicy watermelon on a hot summer's day
- laughing with friends
- feeling the breeze on your face during a bike ride
- exploring a new place or landscape
- the sound of applause after you've delivered a well-prepared presentation
No matter what it is that lights you up, find a way to experience that this week and recharge your battery now so that you're prepared for later!
With gratitude,
Ashley
I'd love to see you at my upcoming public gigs!
(NOTE: I will occasionally be returning to Houston even after we move :))
- June 18 - Marmo Italian Restaurant (off Westheimer - Houston, TX) - 4:30pm to 8:30pm with jazz pianist Art Fristoe
- Oct 8 - Vintage Point Band plays Deerfield Village Recreation Park, Houston, TX - 6pm to 9pm
- Dec 14 - Opening for Joe Burlison's Uptown Jazz Band CHRISTMAS SHOW! - Dosey Doe Big Barn, The Woodlands, TX - Time TBA
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